Monday, February 26, 2007

'What Do You See?' - The Only Option Blog Post - February 27, 2007

The only option blog post is entitled, "What Do You See?"

It says, " Hello everyone, trust all is well…

The last ten days or so have been fantastic and enlightening.

For those who have my book you will understand what I am about to write, if you don’t yet, save this and go get it!

The mirror." Read Complete Post

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'Leave A Legacy' - No Mountain Too High Blog Post - February 27, 2007

No Mountain Too High blog post is entitled, "Leave A Legacy."

It says, "Lock In Your Legacy.

You, my friend, are going to die.

What? What kind of motivational tool is that? Real inspiring!" Read Complete Post

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'Do You Know that Stress Could Lead to Depression and Suicidal Thought?' - Personal Learning Lifestyle Blog Post - February 27, 2007

Personal Learning Lifestyle blog post is entitled, "Do You Know that Stress Could Lead to Depression and Suicidal Thought?"

It says, "When we look at specific examples of mental health problems, we discover that stressful negative life events account for a large number of depression cases.

In 1969, when a team of investigators looked at the life events of 185 depressed patients prior to the onset of their depression, they discovered that, in almost all cases, there was an overwhelming excess of negative life events or events involving some sort of personal loss." Read Complete Post

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Saturday, February 24, 2007

'You Should Think like I do' - Blair Warren's Blog Post - February 24, 2007

Blair Warren's article is reprinted here.

You Should Think Like I Do

I like “how to be successful” books. I read a lot of them. I get value out of most of them. But they often contain a common element that just rubs me wrong.

Pick up most “how to be successful” books and you’ll see it on nearly every page. If you want to be successful, you need to think the way the author thinks. You need to see things the way the author sees things. You need to believe the things the author believes. Etc, etc.

Of course, it’s rarely stated out right, but the message is there just the same: if you want to be successful, you need to think like I do.

The trouble is, you can’t just decide to start thinking like someone else and have it stick. Why? Because you are you; you aren’t the other person. And since everyone’s life experiences are unique, the way we think will - to a large degree - be unique as well.

Does this mean we’re doomed to failure if we see the world very differently than some author we admire? I doubt it.

Just look at the wide variety of people who become successful in the world and then ask yourself, “If it is necessary to think a specific way in order to succeed, then how did all these vastly different people do it?”

Perhaps the key isn’t that we need to think like someone else but make the most of how we ourselves think. Since life gives each of us different experiences, perhaps we are to build upon those experiences and see where they take us rather than try to be like someone else.

Oscar Wilde said, “To regret one’s own experiences is to arrest one’s own development. To deny one’s own experiences it to put a lie into the lips of one’s life. It is no less than a denial of the soul.”

Heavy stuff, but I have found it to be true.

We may long to live the lives of those who parade their success before us, but to find our own success perhaps we would do well to perfect who we are than try to imitate what we see."


About the Author

Blair Warren is the author of "The Forbidden Keys to Persuasion." Visit his website at http://www.blairwarren.com

*IMNewswatch would like to thank Blair Warren for granting permission to reprint this article.

'Ready, Set, Goals! A Personal Challenge . . . ' - Self Improvement Gym Blog Post - Feburary 24, 2007

Self Improvement Gym Blog Post is entitled "Ready, Set, Goals! A Personal Challenge . . ."

The blog post says, "Why is it that goals are so important?

Well, with goals you create your future in advance.

This is true on many levels, but the most significant is that once you set a goal you actually ‘create’ something.

You bring thoughts together to form ideas and images." Read Complete Post

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Thursday, February 22, 2007

'Great Companies And Great People' - Robert Stuberg's Blog Post - February 23, 2007

Robert Stuberg's Blog Post is entitled "Great Companies And Great People."

Robert says, "Have you ever thought about what it is that makes a company great?

Certainly the most obvious answer is the people in the company.

In order to have a great company, you need great people.

That almost goes without saying." Read Complete Post

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'Revolution or Evolution' - Robert Stuberg's Blog Post - February 23, 2007

Robert Stuberg's blog post is entitled, "Revolution or Evolution."

Robert says, "I was recently consulting for a company that is facing some very serious challenges.

Because of a total lack of communication and execution at all levels, a once profitable company has fallen from a position of generating literally millions of dollars in profit every year to a position of losing so much money that the company is now millions of dollars in debt." Read Complete Post

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Wednesday, February 21, 2007

'Success Tips from Strictly Come Dancing 2006' - Motivation Today Blog - Februray 22, 2007

Motivation Today Blog Post is entitled, "Success Tips From Strictly Come Dancing 2006".

The post says, "How do you cope with that level of stress and how do you get past the stress and do your best?

It is worth taking a look at what can be learned from a competition which frightens the life out of its competitors." Read Complete Post

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"Achieve Your Talent Goals Even if You Lack Talent." - Motivation Today Blog - Februray 22, 2007

Motivation Today Blog Pst is entitled "Achieve Your Talent Goals Even If You Lack Talent."

The blog says, "There is no need to be envious of those who seem more talented or skilful than you.

Some experts say that if you work hard and practice for many hours, you can equal the abilities of the talented.

You may even out perform them.

You may see your own talent emerge out of nothing." Read Complete Post

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'Motivation Tips From Strictly Come Dancing 2006' - Motivation Today Blog - February 22, 2007

Motivation Today Blog post is entitled "Motivation Tips From Strictly Come Dancing 2006".

The blog says, " ‘Strictly Come Dancing’ is a reality TV show which makes grown men tremble if only at the thought of dancing with beautiful women in skimpy clothes.

Motivation is a key factor in deciding who will do their best and who will win.

The program is full of key motivational lessons." Read Complete Post

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Tuesday, February 20, 2007

'Motivate Yourself By Focus, Hard Graft And A New Self-Image' - Motivation Today Blog - Februray 21, 2007

Motivation Today Blog is entitled "Motivate Yourself By Focus, Hard Graft And A New Self-Image".

The blog says,

"Have you ever started out, with great enthusiasm, on the road to achieve an important goal and, after several months or even years, found that you are not much closer to your goal?

Perhaps you decided to make money by joining the internet gold rush but after several years you now find yourself in credit card debt and wondering what happened." Read the Complete Post


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'From Little Seeds' - Rob McPhilip's Blog Post - February 20, 2007

Rob McPhilip's first 'Happiness Secrets' blog post is entitled, "From Little Seeds".

Rob says, "This is the first entry. I don't have any preset plan for this. I'll post and we'll see how it develops.

This is how everything in life starts out. Whether it's a business, a project, a building, a country, a relationship, a family or an individual's life. Everything starts as a seed... either an actual physical seed or the seed of an idea." Read the Complete Post

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'Why Do Some People Hurt Others Without Caring?' - Rob McPhilip's Blog Post - February 20, 2007

Rob McPhilip's latest blog post is entitled "Why Do Some People Hurt Others Without Caring?" Rob says, "After publishing my last Case Study, I received this email;

I appreciate you sending this. I dislike abuse. I studied briefly sexual abuse of children. I wondered what in the world would cause someone to do this to a child or anyone.

The result that led them to their actions is pretty much what you said, because of pain, some for pleasure,some for financial gain such as kiddie porn,some for so called satanic ritual abuse and some just really enjoy being mean to children." Read the Complete Post

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Greed And Other Negative Emotions' - Rob McPhilip's Blog Post - February 20, 2007

Rob McPhilip's latest 'Happiness Secrets' Blog post is titled "Greed And Other Negative Emotions". Rob McPhilips says, "I was recently asked this question below. And since people are often wanting to get rid of what they call negative emotions I thought I'd post my answer here. How can I get rid of greed? You’ll stop being greedy at the same time you’ll stop breathing. And believe me you don’t want to stop either of these things." Read the Complete Post

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Monday, February 19, 2007

How to Channel "Greed" to Your Advantage

In his article entitled "Greed and Other Negative Emotions", Rob McPhilips introduces the definition of greed by telling a short anecdote on how greed affects an individual. The short story shows partly how a person should not only get rid of greed, but how to use that greed to his advantage. Rob then expounds more of this topic by channeling greed in a positive light.

Many famous people used greed to be successful, but when greed starts to use you, then the problem starts.

For more information on how you can channel greed to your advantage, visit Rob McPhilips' site at www.happinesssecrets.com.

Rob McPhilips redefines the meaning of "Psychopath" in his article entitled "Why Do Some People Hurt Others without Caring?"

"Psychopaths are focused on achieving their wants, at the expense of others," says Rob McPhilips. In his blog, happinesssecrets.com, Rob received an intriguing email about why some people like to hurt, or even kill others, without caring.

Rob's response was mainly to look beyond the mind of a psychopath by distinguishing what a psychopath is and is not. He gave out some concrete examples which concern relationships such as with family, friends, co-workers and even mentioned the teaching of Jesus Christ from the Bible, which answers this question justfully.

For more information about what a psychopath is, log on to happinesssecrets.com

Friday, January 5, 2007

Logging Out

I was at my accountability partner's house this morning for some brief "lecture." I was shocked to say the least. For the first time, I have never seen Ian raising his voice at me. I was telling him about what happened, and I sort of chuckled a little bit, and then he snapped, "Why are you laughing? That's not funny!"

My smile disappeared, and I couldn't look him in the eye (for the first time). And then he proceeded to tell me about how I should work out the details of my life.

The bottom line is, he proposed that I should get rid of my internet. He said that I should save all my files in the USB and I could go to the internet cafe for an hour for two days in a week. That way, I wouldn't miss out on anything.

It does make sense. That way, I could do what I love to do (with lots of people around me, take note) and still use the internet without sinning.

And so, guys, I'm logging out in the meantime. I have already scheduled when I would go to the internet cafe to check my mails and research on things.

Ian and I ended our session with a prayer. It was a relief and I felt a huge burden being lifted off my shoulder. God has indeed saved me from the pits.

Although I have only known Ian for less than a year, I feel that we have bonded strongly and that our friendship would last forever. I treat him as my best friend, and I think he feels the same way about me.

Salamat sa lahat, pare.

Wednesday, January 3, 2007

Struggling and Failing

When you're alone with only the net as company, thoughts of immense stature gradually invades your mind, as in my case when I arrived from Baguio home alone. The temptation to do satan's work was overwhelming and in my struggle, I succumbed to his wishes, not once but several times in the course of two days.

I immediately asked for forgiveness from God, and questions of doubt entered my mind. Do I really love God? Am I worthy to be called His Son? I was on the verge of crying, and my conscience wouldn't let me sleep.

I immediately talked to my dgroup leader. I told him everything, even the questions hounding my head. Ikoy silently listened and when he spoke, he dropped his words slowly, "Those questions were actually the result of your actions. It's good that you can't sleep. It only means that you realize the mistake that you made."

He had this for an advice: "If your leg makes you sin, cut it off. If your eye makes you sin, pull it out." And then he made a stunning remark: "If you can't do that, then there is really something wrong with your heart bro."

I was silent all the while. I thought about what he just said. It only means one practical thing: Unsubscribe from the internet. But being a writer, I just couldn't do that. The internet is my bread and butter. Without it, I couldn't earn! (This is actually a selfish repose. In my quest for a Godlike character, and in times like these, the need for TRUST is very crucial.)

So what am I to do?

Ikoy proposed an alternative. Create a diversion. So, I made my own blog!

This blog would show my deepest desires, deepest wishes, deepest longings for God's words. Although I still have my internet connection (obviously), it is hoped that I only need to refocus my priorities in life, and that is to be worthy to be called God's child.

This is my first post, and I hope you like it. All for the glory of the Lord!